Yep, I’m an old woman and it’s okay. I’ve accepted my fate, it’s not a choice made by me, there’s no explanation why I live into my seventies, while many others did not, as I did nothing to deserve these extra miles. And so, with this time on my hands, I’d like to get to know you and I’d like for you to know me. Maybe I can share some stuff you’ll learn sooner or later, because living long, even if one does it with one eye closed, like I did most of my life, you pick-up a few things and if you’re open to it, I'm happy to pass on a few hard learned lessons save you some time, energy, and possibly struggle.
For instance, “Is it okay to say no?”, the answer is yes, why, because it’s okay not to want to do something, especially something you hadn’t planned and honestly, this includes saying no to family, friends and even yourself, it is absolutely, irrefutably, **** straight okay to say, “No can do “ and if you find it hard to say no, you can say, “Let me think about it”, then, if you decide to give it a go, you can, and if not, you can shoot a text, email or even call, “Sorry, not up for it, thanks.”
Back to getting to know me and me you, what I’ve found astonishing is how much in common we have, no matter what our age difference, remember, I was young once and what is really awesome is, when we let our guard down an awesome energy of curiosity is available, actually flows between us human beings, there’s so much to work with really, it’s astonishing how in our culture we’ve be taught to stay away from one another, like you could catch my “old germs”, or I could catch rebellious young germs from you, if only.
So, can we try it, can we start a club, like a “weareinthistogether” club, a way to share our stories, our concerns, our triumphs, plus; we could see how much in common we do have, like a hunger for connection, a desire to belong, a desire for personal value and meaning and we could finally admit we care and are concerned for each other and if we didn’t feel like talking, we could sit in silence, in nature, I could miss the morning news, if you could leave your cell phone in your pocket.
Of course, remember you can always say, “Let me think about it,” however if we do get together, I’m happy to share some of my hard-earned life lessons, the most important one, how to say, “I love you” to yourself.