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Obar Mark Dec 2013
Whether it’s burning bridges with people you loved;
We must always remember that our decisions will affect our futures;
Nothing is more true than the fact that whatever goes around comes around;
You are not immune to the cosmic forces of the crowd mind-decisions that you make;
Don’t be surprised when reality catches back up with you and brings you to your knees;
Be a good person, make right  and independent decisions  in your 20s,You’ll get further in life.

We need to control the invincibility we all feel;
It comes to both men and women and it destroys both;
We feel the need to be the knight in shining armor for our lovers;
As chivalrous as this may seem, I hate to break it to you in shouts;
By setting yourself up for a losing battle, you’ve only ensured your misery;
For the next few months in your 20s, find what rightfully belongs to you and no one else.

If our check is for $9, then we’re most likely spending $30;
Between credit cards, school loans and every other avenue;
No doubt, our need for immediate gratification is worse than ever;
The truth is it’s about making more money, not saving it in any bank;
At the same time, if you have no means for expanding your revenue channels;
Then you must be able to save a few dollars here and there while still in your 20s.

Trying to act like the man rather than learning how to become one;
If more time is spent pretending to be the person you want to be instead;
Then you’ll sink in quick sand without even knowing it or even being told;
A real man is willing to make sacrifices. If you aren’t down to put in the work;
Then please don’t act like you are. You can enjoy the success when you actually attain it.;
Be a man in your 20s, that is, being yourself, being a leader and being no one else on earth.
3.3k · Mar 2014
I'M BROKEN TO BE MORE
Obar Mark Mar 2014
Poem – By Obar Mark

I'M BROKEN TO BE MORE

It’s no doubt that to feel pain is mandatory;
But to feel the suffering is not only an option but also a choice;
In heartbreak, suffering and pain, remember that being broken is humility;
So, I choose to be broken in humility.

It takes a broken soil to give a crop a life;
Don’t worry nor remain in despair while going through breakings;
Instead of crying for a lighter load, just ask for a stronger back to carry the load;
So, I choose to be broken in humility.  

It takes humility to accept that your heart has been broken;
It takes ignorance to allow any man or woman to break your precious heart;
Just as it takes broken cloud to give rain and bring a new hope to huge masses;
So, I choose to be broken in humility.

In deed, broken grains give bread;
Broken bread give strength;
Likewise, God uses broken people to make great things;
So, I choose to be broken in humility.
2.4k · Dec 2013
Do It Now
Obar Mark Dec 2013
The real power of desire is doing the right thing at the right time;
It's about making a decision knowing that nobody's going to notice your good works;
There's so much negative imagery of black fatherhood in continuously postponing to do right;
You should ask yourself, “how come postponing things hasn't paid but instead it's robbed me;
How come that's not as newsworthy? Do it now.

The real power of character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking;
There are too many people who think that good things are best done under people's watch;
Make an initiative to change the way you handle matters of procrastination in your everyday life;
Then you will know that Initiative is doing the right thing without being told, and doing the best;
It's a choice, not a chance; it's an initiative not only a desire; Do it now.

It's not doubt that the biggest exam that we fail each day is discouragement test;
Does it mean that life it not always fair for people who fail the test of discouragement;
I believe in the contrary; I believe that if you keep doing things in time, you always be right;
Next to doing the right thing at the right time, is to let yourself know you are doing the right thing;
So, ethics are not necessarily to do with being law-abiding but being interested in the moral path to do it now.
1.9k · Dec 2013
Take time to smile
Obar Mark Dec 2013
Take time to smile even when things are not the way you expected;
because taking time to smile will make you use time wisely;
smile will separate you from thinking that you're worse;
now, take time to smile.

Take time to smile when you are still alive and kicking;
because, when you were born everyone else was smiling as you're crying;
and when you die, everyone else will be crying and you could be the only smiling;
now, take time to smile.

Take time to smile when people treat you as an option;
because your smile will be written in their hearts when you are gone;
the smile will challenge and remind them that you treated them as a choice;
now, take time to smile.  

Take time to smile when in pain because a smile will remind you of the previous happy times;
the smile will convince you that you still have a chance to be happy;
Smile it out when you are sorry for what you have done;
Now take time to smile because you are convinced that smile is from your soul.
Obar Mark Dec 2013
You have a reason to be strong because your strength is not yours but God’s;
We are strong because we are not shallow in what we want to achieve;
Because we not only believe in luck and all the good thing in life;
But because we believe in cause and effect which are but seasonal;
Now, you have a reason to be strong.

If your mind tells you that you are scrawny, refuse and say, “I have a reason to be strong.”
Work towards a mind that is at peace with itself and at peace with everyone else;
Work towards a mind that is not focused on harming others in any little thing;
Then your mind will be stronger than any physical force in the universe;
Now, you have a reason to be strong in peace with others.


You have a reason to be strong because struggles nourish courage in any circumstance;
You can never be strong is you only have wonderful thing in everyday’s life;
It is not about winning any battle of life experiences or settling for less;
It is about going through hardships and decides not to surrender;
Now, you have a reason to be strong when you don’t give up.

I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress of their lives;
People who can purpose to labour and grow brave by reflection of what they want;
They know that Strength of character means the ability to overcome;
Who have ability to hide hurt feelings, and to forgive quickly in faith;
They always tell one another that, “You have a reason to be strong.”
Obar Mark Dec 2013
In the silence of my heart, my soul calls on you in shouts;
Under your care, the true meaning of love is found in me;
When am weak, your love is what uplifts me;
Indeed, I am in love with you;

The world teaches no reason to love forever in abounding life;
Your Faithfulness to me, teaches love in all conditions;
It’s a command; it’s a rule; it’s in me – in you and us of all;
No wonder, I am in love with you;

Until your love came to our rescue, we’re materials for hell;
Until you made the ultimate sacrifice for us, we didn’t know love;
Until you reconciled us to the father, we’re orphans in groans;
You’ve taught me love, and I am in love with you;

Now, your love has lifted me above all storms of the earth;
Am still because I know that you are God of all the earth;
Neither depth, nor other creature shall separate us from God’s love;
I’m more than conqueror because I am in love with you;
928 · Dec 2013
Be yourself
Obar Mark Dec 2013
One of the most difficult things to achieve is to become what the world wants;
It's a great accomplishment to be who you are in a world that is making you something else;
Many people are not who they really are because they want to conform to the beauty of the world;
You now have a chance to say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind either.

Trying to be someone else is like making a new creation out of nothing, it will be nothing;
It's time to know that everyone else has already been taken, it's time you be yourself in everything;
Don't mind imperfection because it's beauty, madness is trying to be perfect, it's absolutely boring;
You now have a chance to follow your inner moonlight; don't hide the madness of imperfection.

Keenly look at those who are living the lives of their parents, they are older than their parents;
You will end up with a boring life because you wanted to be someone else, you don't deserve that;
Being who you are will invite many people to your life, being someone else will do the contrary;
Of course, people will love you for  what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all, so be yourself.

If people love you, they will give you a chance to be yourself;
You will find friendship in people who give you total freedom to be yourself-and moreso to feel;
Whatever you happen to be feeling at any moment is fine with them. That's what real love is;
If I were you, I'd have started being myself even before finishing to read this poem. Be yourself.
801 · Dec 2013
A loving Christmas
Obar Mark Dec 2013
Another Christmas has come and gone and I didn't get chance to celebrate;
People insisted on giving me gifts, but I never enjoyed the gifts a moment;
I had too much to drink; I slept on 24th and woke up on 27th, and still dizzy;
What if Christmas...perhaps...means a little bit more of celebrations;
I never celebrated a loving Christmas;

A Christmas doesn't come from a store, maybe Christmas perhaps means a little bit more;
It's more than drinking too much alcohol and driving -then finding yourself in deathbed;
It may mean something like, eating with those who lacks meals for even a single day;
It's a choice to celebrate a loving Christmas with the less fortunate;

Christmas makes our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred;
and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit, become a child again;
It's at Christmas-time that we should think about life in it's totality;
because all of become children again in a loving Christmas;
546 · Mar 2014
ONE DROP OF LOVE
Obar Mark Mar 2014
Poem – By Obar Mark

Ever heard of such quotes, “too busy for life”;
So far, I know that a busy life only hide the people we miss;
While distant gaps can only push the people we miss further;
Because all it takes is one drop of love to bridge the gap.

Time is the only one resource we equally possess;
But time becomes limited to talk with one another;
Unfortunately, we will never have enough time in any life;
Because all it takes is one drop of love to find time for loved ones.

The eyes will never be able to see our thoughts;
Our unspoken prayers are only but thoughts in disguise;
If you need them, tell them to be closer to you than ever before;
Because all it takes is one drop of love to tell someone that you love them.

Try making it work, try coming closer;
Because ugly things of yesterday can be very beautiful today;
Caterpillar of yesterday is a beautiful butterfly of today;
Because all it takes is one drop of love to try making it work.

— The End —