When a girl ignores your message twice, leave her alone. She isn't blind, she just chose to ignore it or possibly indisposed at the time. There's no need sending more messages.
2: When a girl accept your request. Seriously typing "Thanks for accepting" on her wall is lame. Do it in her inbox. Some of you get ignored when you type that crap on their walls.
3: You don't need to be a male Love Peddler. Don't woo every random chic on your list. Some are good enough to be just friends with you. Get to know her first and win her trust.
4: As I usually stress, don't be a thirsty dude on a girl's post. If the post is nice, simply hit "like"and move on. If you need to comment, make it brief and interesting. Don't go begging her to add you.
5: If the picture is beautiful, like it and give a simple compliment. If it's not, there's no need to lie to get her attention.
6: When chatting you don't spend your whole time telling a girl how beautiful she is, a hundred other dudes tell her everyday. They find it boring when you join the train.
7: You have those chicks who have never liked, shared or commented on any of your posts. They also don't reply your messages and comments on theirs. Please man, why haven't you deleted them? You be their slave?
8: If you find yourself always starting the conversation with a particular person, like you're always the first to message her, stop for a while. If she doesn't notice, you're not important to her...Leave her alone.
9: If you guys don't roll, don't tag her to your pictures. She might find it offensive.
10: The lesser of you, the better for you. When you are all over her wall, all over all her posts and all over all her pictures commenting and liking everything, you are less appreciated because you are acting thirsty.
11: When you compliment a ******* her picture and another person compliments the same picture, and the girl thanks the other person and skips your name, please remove your comment. It wasn't necessary....
Hope this post makes someone's day...

When she gives up on you, it's obvious; . 1. She will not try to catch your attention. . 2. She will not fight for you anymore. . 3. She won't reply your message as quickly anymore. . 4. She won't try to keep the conversation going anymore. . 5. She will not care anymore. . 6. She's no longer jealous. . 7. She will flirt and talk to other guys. . 8. She's no longer care if you care or not anymore. . 9. She's no longer goes to your profile and whine to people about how happy you're, talking to other girls. . 10. She will give up on trying to make you love her, because she finally realize that she deserves better. . -And you will miss her. Miss the way she cared about you. Miss the way she loved you. And you have lost her. . So don't take any girls for granted, if you love her, let her know before she gives up!
Be the peffect guy to your woman befor someone do it.

VERY IMPORTANT ADVICE TO LADIES: 1. Note that there are many guys out there who just want to use and dump you. Don't just accept a guy because he is a fine boy. I know that some of you girls easily fall for handsome guys. The devil is also handsome. So be careful. 2. I also know that you ladies can easily be deceived with sweet words and sweet lies. You ought to be wise. Do not allow sweet words move you. Don't beleive a guy's sweet words until he proves it to you beyond reasonable doubt. 3. Be very careful if a guy says: "I love you, I cannot do without you", "I will die for u", "I Can't survive without you". Those words are not true. NO GUY CAN DIE FOR YOU IN THIS OUR PRESENT GENERATION. It is a fact. Don't let anyone deceive you. 4. Don't open your legs because he said he loves you. Don't open your legs because he gave you a ring. Don't open your legs because he promise to marry you. 5. Respect your body. Your body is more precious than money. Don't trade your body for money. 6. Use your brain to make money. Don't use your ***** and *** organs to make money. Use your hands and brains. 7. Dating and relationship is NOT because of ***. If he cannot wait till wedding night, let him go. God will provide a real man for you. 8. I KNOW THAT SOME GUYS WILL BE ANGRY WITH ME OVER THIS POST. But I will keep saying the truth to save innocent souls.

-.A GIRLkeeps her password on her cellphone, while a WOMAN is confident enough to say “darling can you answer that for me?”!! -.A GIRL has pride after arguments, a WOMAN has heart & emotions. -.A GIRL tells her man all the things he does wrong, a WOMAN acknowledges her man’s hardwork!! -.A GIRL run on the streets & chill with her friends, while a WOMAN enjoys time with her man planning ahead for their future!! -.A GIRL exchange words with her man, a WOMAN keeps quite & listen to her man. -.A GIRL complains about spending too much time with her man, a WOMAN plans vacations & getaways because she is wise enough to notice tomorrow isn’t promised!! -.A GIRL tells her man he is cute, & a WOMAN tells her man he is handsome. -.A GIRL takes her man to the house, & a WOMAN takes her man home. -.A GIRL tells the whole world her heart is broken, & a WOMAN keeps her life in line, with tears in her eyes she still manages to say nah! I am fine. -.A GIRL will read this & think this is about her, & a WOMAN will read this & thoroughly acknowledge what she needs to fix in her relationship

There is a lot of nonsense about the image of
women and what "perfect" is. You've been fed
**** and maybe you should understand a few
truths if you value quality in people.
A black woman is perfect as is.How you find her.
Not your idea of what she is or how she "should" be.
She is not a fetish you've built up from all the
**** you see on television, read on magazines
or the ones you secretly view with shame and embarrassment from the **** collection you ******* to.
A black woman's body is none of your concern
until she makes it your concern. She is not put
on this earth to be gawked by you just because
your favorite rapper views women in that way.
Don't be Foolish you idiot.
That weak way of thinking, that perspective is
stupid and frankly utter fuckboyery. I believe in
you, please don't disappoint me.
Instead of whistling when you see a good woman,
hold that **** back and calm your urges to be crass
and idiotic.
Stop your friend from talking **** about black women.
Dissociate from the cool **** ***** whose only
concern is racking up conquests and ******* then dumping women.
Do better. Call your ******* on their *******
instead of perpetuating the same old garbage
mentality we came up on. That having more than
one dime makes you it. Gets you made.
That calling women names for peer approval
makes you hard and a leader. A leader to what?
A leader to where?
Your perception of a perfect woman should be
the happiness you're going to give that one lady,
that one woman by the way you accept her as is,
how happy you make her by the way you
encourage her growth and self acceptance cause
they all come with insecurities, negative nuances,
shames, scars, pains from a past you probably will
never hear of until you earn that sacred trust and
lightning strikes that should fill you with pride when
you study them.
Why?
Because of all men that could have her, she saw her
man, her future, her truth, her life and her possibility
and potential unfold beautifully with you and you
alone. And she chose YOU.
(And trust me, there are ten/twenty to thirty + men that
can do a way better job than you out there who've either hollered and got turned down or those who've made plans to and probably will).

.
1. You wake up early morning but you cant
send
even a good morning message to your
lover trust me you are just pretending there is
no
love between you too.
2. You are in the same country you can take a
week without hearing the voice of the so called
lover... My dear there is no love
between two of you.
3. Your lover sends you a message but you read
without replying, instead of hurting his/her
feeling
be open and tell him/her that you don't love
her/
him anymore.
4. You organise to meet but everytime you are
saying you are busy. Why don't you tell him/her
the truth that you don't love her/
him.
5. When you meet you cant even give him her
a
hug why do you pretend that you in love.
6. Your phone is always busy whenever your
lover
calls. Why don't you tell him/her the truth that
you
don't love her/him.
7. You cant spare time for your lover but you
spare time for other people. Why don't you be
open to him/her that you don't love her him.
8. You've been dating for years without
knowing if
it's leading to marriage or not, tell him/her the
truth and stop wasting someone's time.
9. Feelings are so painful if you don't love that
person. Stop playing with his/her feelings. Be
open and say you don't love her/
him.
10. Your lover's heart is not a doll to be played
with. Be open and tell him/her that you don't
love
him/ her anymore

Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot...
Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.
I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.
Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME
It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship...
Whoever sees you as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life, you call him honey but he treats you like a monkey, He is your everything but you are nothing to him, you are doing everything to make it work, but he keeps thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness...
Never keep awake thinking
about someone who is
deeply sleeping with
someone else.
Never stay a minute
thinking about someone who cant spend a
second
thinking about you.
Leave that person who
takes your love for granted
and doesnt love you back
the way you do,
Love should be balanced
not based one side.
Its better to be single than
being in an ugly
relationship that will make
you cry forever.