Common Mistakes Women make when discovering an affair
When you have just discovered that your man is cheating on you...please do NOT do the following:-
1.
Demanding to know about the other woman: The truth may hurt you. Can you handle the truth?
2.
Insulting the other woman: You are giving her power, she doesnt deserve. Especially if you insult her to your husband e.g. how is your **** doing?
3.
Forcing him to choose, thinking he will choose you: There is no competition here-you will lose this one! She is new and they are in the honeymoon phase, you on the other hand are an old habit.
4.
Calling him excessively to check on him like a prisoner: He may start to avoid your calls even if he is not doing anything bad just to protect his freedom.
5.
Beating the other woman up: You are creating sympathy for her. Now she looks like your victim to him. With this one you are still giving her power.
6.
Threatening to leave just to scare him: You are giving h im ideas. You make the grass seem greener on the other side.
7.
Crying: He wont feel sympathy for you-he will feel burdened by the tears.
8.
Snooping: Dont hurt yourself unnecessarily. You will find what you are looking for. Dont break into his e-mails. Dont scroll his cellphone and dont go through his messages.
9.
Being in denial even though the signs are there: Do something about your knowledge or you will make yourself sick. Some diseases are stress-related. Deal with your issues; dont bottle them up.
10.
Telling his mother: For crying out loud! This is his mother!
11.
Committing suicide: Seriously, once youre gone, youre gone!
Put the phone down.
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It is wise to leave his phone alone.when you are hurting, deal with your disappointment instead of going through his phone only to find more truths that will hurt you.

Dear Ladies
Common Mistakes Women make when discovering an affair
When you have just discovered that your man is cheating on you...please do NOT do the following:-
1.
Demanding to know about the other woman: The truth may hurt you. Can you handle the truth?
2.
Insulting the other woman: You are giving her power, she doesnt deserve. Especially if you insult her to your husband e.g. how is your **** doing?
3.
Forcing him to choose, thinking he will choose you: There is no competition here-you will lose this one! She is new and they are in the honeymoon phase, you on the other hand are an old habit.
4.
Calling him excessively to check on him like a prisoner: He may start to avoid your calls even if he is not doing anything bad just to protect his freedom.
5.
Beating the other woman up: You are creating sympathy for her. Now she looks like your victim to him. With this one you are still giving her power.
6.
Threatening to leave just to scare him: You are giving h im ideas. You make the grass seem greener on the other side.
7.
Crying: He wont feel sympathy for you-he will feel burdened by the tears.
8.
Snooping: Dont hurt yourself unnecessarily. You will find what you are looking for. Dont break into his e-mails. Dont scroll his cellphone and dont go through his messages.
9.
Being in denial even though the signs are there: Do something about your knowledge or you will make yourself sick. Some diseases are stress-related. Deal with your issues; dont bottle them up.
10.
Telling his mother: For crying out loud! This is his mother!
11.
Committing suicide: Seriously, once youre gone, youre gone!
Put the phone down.
·
It is wise to leave his phone alone.when you are hurting, deal with your disappointment instead of going through his phone only to find more truths that will hurt you.

Don’t fall in love with a guy just
because he is rich, handsome and
popular. Fall in love with a guy
who loves to stay up at night just
to see you breathing or to see you
smiling while you are dreaming.
Fall in love with a guy who loves
the way you sip your coffee or the
way you chew your food. Fall in
love with a guy who loves the way
you smile or the way you wrinkle
up your nose. Fall in love with a
guy who loves to hear your
heartbeats, your cute little stories,
your silly jokes and your laughter.
Fall in love with a guy who hates
to even blink his eyes because he
doesn’t want to miss a single
thing about you. A guy who thinks
that every single moment spent
with you is priceless. Fall in love
with a guy who thinks you are his
only treasure and he just can’t
afford to lose you at any cost.
This is the guy who will make you
see your real worth and love you
till the end of his life. Never let
him go…

"1)..You take your girlfrend. An go
clubbing,after you marry her you want to
stop her from clubbing.....my brother,you
think a miracle will happen??
2)...You have 8 tribal marks ,stretch marks
scattered all over your body,but you still
want tatoos......aahh my frend,are you a
zebra??
3)...You be 6 feet tall,you still wear 6 inch
high heels..my sister,you want to whisper to
God??
4)....You take pictures inside different types
of cars,yet you go say you are not a
cheater..aunty, are you a mechanic??
5)..You gather different pictures of girls in
your phone and you go expect your girl to
believe you are not cheating..abeg uncle,areyou a photographer??
6)...He gave you an engagement ring for over
5years but he never married you..my
dear,are you lord of the rings?
7)...You claim you ate pizza but you go *****
Polony and vetkoek..my friend,are you. a
magician??
8)...Your girl be licking ice cream but you be
drinking pure water.,.my friend,are you
diabetic??
9)..You are 18 years old and your sugar
daddy be 70 years old and you go call him
baby..aahh my sister,that one should be your
ancestor"

TO THE BEAUTIFUL LADIES OUT THERE.
A big shout out to all the beautiful ladies who don't need to dress half naked to get a man's attention.stay class.
let me tell you this secret. we((guy).
know exactly what you possess,can draw them and even label the parts even if you're wearing a raincoat..so don't be deceived.
No real man will want to marry a lady who everybody have already seen what is supposed to be his most precious scene privately.
God made every woman beautiful exposing your body by wearing short dresses doesn't make you beautiful,it makes you cheap and also exposes you to Ebola.
‪#‎SECRET‬.
only the bad guys love girls on short.
dresses,the good guyz hate them.
thank you and God bless you all.

Dear Women:
Do you want your man to love, respect and stay faithful to you alone? I have a love portion you can give him. The ingredients of the love portion include:
1. Always look beautiful and attractive.
2. Be diligent and always make sure the house is tidy.
3. Cook delicious meals for him at all times and always include his favourite food.
4. Give him good *** and romance.
5. Always pray for him.
6. Be humble and Submissive.
7. Avoid quarrelling with him and if there is any form of quarrel, always settle it before the next day.
8. You must be able to ENDURE. A woman that cannot endure will never last in a man's house.
9. Love his family members like your own family.
10. Always contribute to the development of the home. Don't have the mentality that it is the man that must buy everything. He will respect you for this.
NOTE THAT: Even If you use the most powerful charm on a man and your character is on a zero level, his eyes will surely be opened one day.

When you love someone so deep inside,
It seems like it's so easy to hide.
You've loved him for so very long,
You would think he could do no wrong.

Every day you would hope and pray,
That he would always stay this way.
He treated you like you should be treated,
You thought your life was finally completed.

You thought your love was growing true,
And then one day it was all so blue.
He started putting you down and it hurt,
You thought all you were to him was dirt.

He started ignoring you and you wondered why,
All you wanted to do was curl up and die.
You thought your relationship would never end,
But that was all so fake and pretend.

One night he was so sweet to you,
You thought all those things were maybe untrue,
Two days later he was back the same,
You thought you were the one to blame.

He thought the relationship was getting too serious
And that you had become a little too curious.
By this time you knew it wouldn't last,
All the nice things he said were in the past.

You thought that you would marry him some day,
But this time God wanted to get his way.
You wanted things back how they were before,
But you knew this couldn't happen anymore.

It was a Saturday night about ten o'clock,
You heard the news and it wasn't a shock.
You knew this was going to happen soon,
As you laid there and cried in the pale lit moon