Strange isn't it? How things change you, make you grow up, make you feel different. It could be something big, like a break up or a family member dying that completely crushes you and makes you have to rebuild yourself. Or it could be something as simple as two words, I'm sorry, that changes your whole outlook on life. People think that they are mature when they turn 18 and they're adults. But they have no idea what maturity even is. You don't truly know until you have been changed in your own way, and you know what it feels like to be hurt and fix yourself on your own without relying on anybody.