How not to become a good boyfriend?
Make her fall for you even more,
so she'll not have any chance of leaving you.
Acknowledge that she's not perfect, and that she can't do everything for you.
Cook her foods, and make her fat so others will not fall for her.
Give all your time to her, so she'll not have any choice but to give her time to you too.
Remember that she's only a limited edition, so you can't have anyone like her-
Make her misses you more, so when you see each other she'll give you her best hugs and kisses
Make her independent, allow her to do things of her own
Allow her to dress anything she likes, and make her responsible for her own decisions
Let her know the worst part of you, so you'll know if she'll stay or go away
Make her laugh until she'll feel pain in her stomach.
Let her cry hard because of your little surprises,
Let her cry harder because you love her that much.

I hope I am not a good boyfriend to her.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

Colorful fireworks
an outburts of warmth love,
did you feel the sparks?

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2019

True love is like fractals
it may be chaotic and complex,
but it will never end.


-Frances Jay

10 signs that you are not lucky.
You are alive and you are happy,
you get mad and feel sad,
you get hurt but still manage to laugh,
you can eat three times a day,
you have something to wear everyday
you can read and write,
you can inspire others to live a significant life.
You can love and be loved,
but expect that others will not reciprocate the same love you have.
You have friends and family,
willing to help you unconditionally.
And lastly, you have God,
who is undoubtedly always there for you,
and certainly loves you too.

Remember that you are not lucky because you are blessed.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

Dreams inside your head
if not put into action,
does not really count.

-Frances Jay

Beauty and her beau.
Always got each other's back,
so their love will last.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2019

Never hurry things up.
Not because others have finished their coffee
it doesn't mean you also need to finish yours even if its hot.
Sometimes, it is best for us to wait for the right moment when you can drink your coffee without worrying too much.

Not too hot, not too cold.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

Stop hurting yourself.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
It is at most true that there will always be someone who is better than you; someone who is more knowledgeable than you; and more successful than you.
Accept it, but never let it be your reason not to strive hard.
Always make yourself be the better version of you.

Tell me this is not a dream.
Because when I am with you,
Time stops, and love never lasts.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

My world is blurred.
Things are unclear,
I can't merely see.
I can't live my everyday with glee
Everything is vague,
and I'm sad-
Can you help me find my eyeglasses?


and by the way,
I can lose my eyeglasses but not you.


-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

They wished you pure joy
but they don't even support you.
I don't understand.


-Frances Jay

You have to dream big
and be successful in life
But you wake up first.


-Frances Jay

Hey! Gorgeous human being,
Thanks because with me you are staying.
Despite our fights and misunderstanding
we never quit, we just keep going
We chose love over pride,
it doesn't matter who's wrong or right.
For as long as love is there,
this relationship will live forever.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

When chasing success,
failure will always be there.
And it's up to you.


-Frances Jay

Never excite yourself into something that is not yet happening.
You'll end up disappointing yourself. Trust me, I did it just yesterday that is why I wrote this.

-FJ. Pacaldo, 2020

When a flower blooms,
it means she is in good hands.
I think we are too.


-Frances Jay

Cats today are now afraid of mice.
Just like how our teachers are afraid to students,
so they have to always be nice.
They don't have choice but to follow,
because a single mistake can put them in great sorrow.

-F.J Pacaldo, 2020