An off-white pew smudged by fingerprints of all mourners who come through dirt poor people pushed into this narrow hallway wreathed with dusty fake lilies - Meant to Honor the dead. Two names written in the book But the other lines are empty as the gap between Front Row Blue-Haired Lady, whose name I know, and the Back-Row Tattoo/Piercing Crowd that is 15 rows deep and 15 rows weep because my cousin is gone- and the address printed on the memorial is wrong.