I should have sent more cards, written more letters, read more books. Paid more attention to unspoken words, conveyed in all those looks. Only then could I have understood just all that she could be. Only then would I have noticed I was to her as she was me. But fear and insecurity, paint a funny shade of green, add a splash of doubt and jealousy, kiss goodbye to self-esteem. And so I sit alone again cross one more lesson off the list lick my wounds then walk away and not look back at what I missed.