sometimes insecurites blinds us, and being too critical to self, we often forget to love the blessing we already have,
try to lessen it day by day, until nothing is left to ponder and as you'll see clearly the love and acceptance you are looking for because that is what i do, i still have some issues upon self and upon realizing this, i am learning to love myself a little more than i never did.
or i guess if perhaps its always there(insecurities ), then atleast you'll learn how to manage it day by day to stay away and stay clear to the path to loving oneself.