Where were you when your family was crying where were you when your daughter was growing up where were you when your son was crying every night where were you when your kids were not all right where were you when your daughter had her prom where were you when your son was lost and confused where were you when your daughter graduated high school where were you all those times we needed you where were you when our mom had to work two jobs just to support us where wereΒ Β you when our mother was our rock where were you when your children were learning life's pain where were you when your kids were making choices where were you when you were not making any effort to see us you weren't there did you even care we may forgive but we will never forget