What grandpa told me; Grandpa told me how to not take it the wrong way. Grandpa didn't ever take anything too seriously. He always bugged me, and I think he does to this day. Our games of cards had been something to keep us busy. There had to have been a logical way to explain what I was asking at that age. His answers always left me asking the closest things to his age. His ideal was to show not much anger when you got challenged again and again. His calm attitude had a appeal to me in my childhood.