There are a very few things that anger me, they assume nothing makes me angry. Just because I am cheerful, I am not allowed to feel low. Just because I am less often seen in a bad mood, they assume nothing can spoil it. I don’t react to everything that happens around me, they assume I have no opinions whatsoever. I am not harsh on anyone, they assume I am meek. I don’t punish, they assume I can’t. I forgive, they assume I forget. I don’t brood over the past, they assume I am ‘blessed’ with memory loss.
When I come across people assuming things about me, I try not to lose heart and tell myself, they are doing the easiest thing they can do, which is ‘assuming’. Assuming is equivalent to not understanding. Those who fail to understand, either because they are unable to or because they don’t want to, are the ones who assume.