One of the most important things I've learned since becoming an adult, is that other people hate to see you happy. They will try everything they can to drag you down to their level of misery. The only obligation you have as a person is to fight for what creates that happiness and to listen to no one but you. Have a good relationship? Someone will try to convince you that it isn't. Have a good job? Someone will try to take it away from you. Have a good self-esteem? Ha. Not for long sucker. People will make sure that you hate what you have to see in the mirror every day. But you don't have to listen. Turn off your ears and turn on your brain. And never let anyone ruin your life.