whose flowers are these? who brought them to the gravesite and arranged them with such care? placing each flower individually every week a kaleidoscope of color pastel petals wrapped in green stems, leaves and ferns bouquets speaking softly from the heart conversations of love and respect unspoken words of connection and affection painting a picture of impressionistic serenity amid grass and tombstones who cared about him this much, besides us? who cares about him still?