I cannot deal abstractly with others. I cannot relate to the world as an Oligarchy possession. Unconditional Love means I love everyone in existence while notΒ Β accepting their actions. . Conditional Love leaves me cold and disgusted. Conditional Love means in return for loving you I can hate you in equal or unequal proportion . Conditional Love finds self validation in others. Live vicariously. Die a failure and a fraud. A whitebread Tom Uncle