A 12 year old Wynn, wandering around the house. Not so different from a spirit, one that had shed its oppressive shackles of daily struggles. A lot of people came to my father's funeral.
Everybody kinda threw a hodge podge of advice at me. Saying token phrases that they probably picked up in a movie. Things like, "Your father loved you, you were a lucky boy." I don't care to remember the rest. Although the worst was the people who had the audacity, the nerve, to tell me, "Time will heal all."
They must have meant it takes enough time for me to die too, only able to heal once I can see him again. Because I spent the first 6 years numb, carrying on through awkward motions, like I needed a good grease or tune up.
You could hear the **** squeaks as a poorly maintained robot should. Devoid of emotions, unfeeling, unable to accept the traumatization of tragedy.
I spent the last 3 or 4 years successfully. I graduated college. I've fallen in and out of love. I even grew up into a promising young adult. But I also learned how to miss my dead dad. Time only makes it hurt more as I count each year. This is The Ninth Father's Day.