After seeing what happen in California, I see Christ truth.
Be content with whom Christ has created you to become.
Realize that the reason the opposite does not fall over you.
Might have nothing to do with you, but Christ is protecting you.
As also it might have nothing to do with them, so be not angry with them.
It might have to do with the journey that you are on right now.
It might have to do with Christ, if you ended up with that person.
They might have pulled you away from Christ, it might have to do with your high calling as well.