Even through your sufferings, especially through your sufferings. Put others first, this is the way to reveal Christ living within you. This is how Christ want us to live, by putting others before one self. Especially while we are hurting the very most, this reveals Christ. Because Christ love is not like a sink faucet or shower head. That may be turn on and off whenever we chose to love others. But its an action that shall be shown always through us.