To put others before thyself, to help others first. To not think of yourself , but to be there for others. Is becoming Christ like in a world full of selfishness. This is the way to reveal Christ to the lost people. To trust Christ will bless you, when you pick up his will. Laying down ones needs and wants, to put others first. This is what is important in a Christians life here. To take that step in becoming Christ like here on the earth. No matter how lonely it may make you or how much it might hurt.