1. Look in the mirror and practice saying I love you until the words come out sounding like the song birds you heard while washing your body in a river that looked like glass before being shattered by waterfall.
2. The muscles in your cheeks will hurt sometimes when you smile too much, but remember that ache when you are feeling lost. Even happiness is hard. Keep telling yourself it is worth it.
3. Scars and bruises cover your body like a map to remind you which falls hurt the most, and that you stood up again.
4. Grow flowers in your bones so that you aways have a gift to give. Sometimes, that gift is yourself.