I'm often reminded of this when the other students in my class ask me what my major is.
“Liberal Studies,” I say.
The follow up question is always the same cookie-cutter inquiry.
“So you want to be a teacher?”
“No, not really” I say.
At this juncture the person who is blandly asking the questions begins to express genuine interest in what I might do next in the “real-world,” spiked with a fear of the unknown.
“So what do you want to do then?”
I've come to realize that this is the point where most of my passing conversations with peers are brought to an abrupt end.
“I don't know.” I say.
And there it is, out in the open, lying on the floor-- the ******* future. I search their eyes and find panic, then doubt, followed by pity.
I have officially shared too much information. Figures. Honestycreepspeopleout.
We part ways with, “Oh, that's great” or “I'll see you around!” and march forward to that inevitable, tantalizing ***** that is the future.
I've found that when I express a modicum of trust in the world, it is often met with an alarming dread and concern for my prolonged well-being.
I am without a plan, so naturally-- there's a problem.
That if I don't have my calendar marked up through to the second coming of Christ, at some point all of my limbs may simultaneously fall off. Or I may simply cease to exist and all the joys of life will slip through my fingers as I descend into my faithless pit of poor-planning.
I'd like it if everyone could just breathe-- get your cell-phones and computers in class, and live in this moment.
Because yesterday is today and today is tomorrow, and there is no future more important than now.
Until then and philosophy aside, I guess I'll keep careening on the edge of reality with my thumb up my *** because god forbid you become anything like me.