Childhood is full of the tugging of hair and licking sherbet so sharp that your eyes water. School is making daisy chains in the sunshine, splashing through puddles in the rain, socks that fall down and hair that sticks up, the clasping of sticky hands and the shoving of bodies in ant farm corridors. Friendships are forged in the form of whispers, hands cupped round ears and tentative "Will you be my best friend?"s. These friendships strengthen like super glue or dissolve like sugar in tea, fragile as a moth trapped in a jar. Some friendships are more than a breath of words in an ear, some are a shout from a mountain top. Some friendships don't need to be deterred by the length of a daisy chain or how many sweets you've shared. Some friendships don't need the deep roots that are plotted and planted as kids, because some friendships scatter off trees in the wind all of a sudden and bloom in the aftermath of tears, tears cried over boys and cupped in collar bones. Some friendships grow and blossom in the sunshine of smiles, giggles on lazy Sunday afternoons, stifled laughter in sticky situations. Some friendships are sealed by the soil of memories more real than classrooms and plastic chairs. Some friendships are more than scrunched up notes thrown across tables and promises made with crossed hearts. The best friendships are the ones formed as adults that make you feel that young again.
A poem I wrote for my best friend for her birthday. We haven't known eachother for very long, but I wanted her to know that that doesn't matter.