today’s theme dearest love, O unknowing love is the gentleness that is you; it is the quiet like the yin in the Dao unformed, not fixed and forming in constant flow; and gentle and open and soft and its softness its strength; and so today I saw that, I felt that in you in your word, in your gesture in your walk across the aisle; and your softness follows me home to my quiet dreams like the shadows below the trees