Sometimes Christ will allow situations, to occur to bring healing.
It may not feel like God because we do not want to admit that it might be him.
But Christ will do the tough love thing when it involves our salvation.
At first it might be very uncomfortable, it might even hurt at first.
But in the end, if it came from God there shall be growth even healing.
So trust in him, for Christ only desire is to work his salvation into us.
In the very end, when he says welcome home child it shall be so worth it.
For to be one of his people is a huge honor, to be welcome home by him too.