I came in third place in a race. The winner of the race shook my hand, congratulated me, then reminded me that I lost.
I was happy for him, of course. He ran fast. Good for him. But he needn't push his gold in my face.
My bronze contented me plenty; now it feels worthless and *****. I feel dumb for thinking third place was worth acknowledging.
I don't run, there was no race. This is just a stupid analogy about a stupid kid who made me sad because he did better.
I came in third in a poetry contest, and the guy in first reminded me that he came in first. It was rude and unnecessary, and it made me feel bad about things.