we are the conventional lovers the respectable ones we are tight-lipped and we never argue or disagree in public and even in private we will not raise our voices lest unseen people might hear us; we are the respectable lovers who bring up children to never reveal their feelings and to arm themselves with degrees and sobriety and wide connections and prestige ambitions and whose grades are the best in the nation; and our conversations are of what school our children attend and what marks they attain and our lives to drive them around for achievement lessons; ah, this is why we love this why we marry for the sake of our duty to society, respectability our religion, the nation and for the posterior, Oh, I mean - for posterity