If I were a book, what would my cover lead you to believe?
Colorful knee socks - a bit quirky. Nose ring - acquired during a brief rebellious phase. Purple hair - craving attention. Lack of eye contact - lacking self confidence, socially awkward. Chipped nail polish - not quite a girly-girl or a tomboy Combat boots - attempting to seem edgy.
Maybe your assumptions are right. But you'll never know until you read the book.