there's always the spiel about how love works there's the spontaneity, the romance, the love-making, etc. but what if we take that and throw it out the window that would be true spontaneity no more would cycles of "romance" and "love" exist anniversaries wouldn't be made such a big deal more space would be left to care for the one you truly love and for them to love you because when you get down to the gist of it all love is made out to be is this big charade of who loves who more, determined by pre-packaged gifts of items to be burned when the **** hits the fan when love should really be going out and picking up your lover early in the morning and having a picnic or staying in bed for the day and calling sick from work looking into each other's eyes and letting the world beyond wash away along with the turmoil it holds or driving out into the highway and let the car determine your destination not the travel agent you paid to set up the reservations true love begs for snap decisions calls for them, weeps for them.