it's a sort of Petrarchan love loving within an arms distance don't get to close to him he'll see your flushed cheeks and inevitable smile and think you're absolutely pathetic.
ethos
the way you stumble over your words and all eloquence shatters against the wall as you fall hard for the smile that reaches his eyes and your heart coursing through your veins.
logos
of course it's not love you idiot you're too young for love and it all ends in heartbreak anyway.