“Love is simply the name for the desire and pursuit of the whole." - Aristophanes in Plato's Symposium*
We take gashes within ourselves to be a symptom of us halves, unwholed. Tending towards completion, Plato made the diagnosis, prescribed the solution. We are agreeable patients, building marriages like altars to Eros, a religion given public space for practice. Bus-seats, cafés and amusement rides become two-seated observances, and the streets are sized like wedding aisles. The private pain of lovelessness approximates to a phantom limb, presumably, six inches too short. We perform penance, making grand, untenable promises of eternity. In return for our piousness, we ask to find wholeness, but find only our selves in some stranger's bed.
Some share these beds for life, attend them like churches, find no answers in two arms cleaving two arms, two legs cleaving two legs.