You must learn to forgive. No one is perfect, and in that broken person sleeps the very creature which will rip the heavens apart and remake a world that thrills and awes.
You must learn to forget. Because old battles don't need to have a victor. They don't need to become new wars, better weapons, or another mark in the βconsβ column.
You must learn to stop comparing notes. No one sees the world the way you do, with the wonder, with the cynicism, with the tired eyes of experience or the fresh eyes of hope.
You must learn to let a part of yourself die. Holding on to a single thing is dangerous. No one thing makes us what we are, no interest or hobby or opinion can possibly build a human being as unique and clever as we all are.
You must learn to retreat. While you live there is always hope. The beginning of a new day, as wonderful and memorable as you can make it.
You must learn to laugh. My god are we flawed, useless broken things on this tired worthless world. It's hysterical.
You must learn to accept the consequences. Take the step, not ignoring the possibilities for disaster, but relishing them. How exciting can one life be? When it is over, you will have your answer.