before bedtime, i stood on my father’s feet and put my tiny hands in his large ones as we danced around the livingroom to billy joel.
i learned to read at two; while young, my father taught me how to gently set a record on the turntable, move the arm, set the needle down
and i read the lyrics, memorizing: war child, dark side of the moon, sports.
we made our fingers walk on a thin line; we made our faces angry with grins.
he, via ian anderson, showed me how to carry a sword and take a stand, told me to be who i really want to be and taught me what to do when i join the good ship earth.
older yet, we sang duets, his deep “by the hand, hand, take me by the hand” to my “i wanna hear some funky dixieland—” his “no sugar tonight” to my “new mother nature.”
now, at fifty-six and twenty-five, we sing about shiny teeth and having nothin’ but a good time. we teach the midwest not to mess with a *******.