My Grandmother had a sage saying, she would regale us with, many times. With various nouns for exchanging. But, the meaning rang clear like a chime.
"Pretty is as pretty does". If, as a diva, on of us girls was heard. She would hit us with that saying because, she knew actions spoke louder than words.
Being of a religious nature, she deplored and showed her discontent, of those that would shout out their own praise, then would go about doing ill intent.
"Christian is as Christian does". Grandma did guide us down that path. She drummed into me that saying because, she knew actions speak louder than words.