So how is the grass on the other side? Is it lush and green, watered with your pride fertilized with your deep betrayal minimal attention is all that you're capable Plenty of sunshine is required and your light is much to be desired Lifeless blades and sparsely covered to grow again ,you'll need structure I hope that she is a gardener she'll have to be just to muster the manure she'll be dealing with because she'll be knee deep in it