The teacher spoke about “pushing forward” “pulling inward” After thinking about it for a while this thought came to mind I thought that “pushing forward” means not trying to hurt yourself “pulling inward” means not trying to hurt others However, I thought that it is necessary to avoid hurting both yourself and others We can't do both at the same time You can't open a door while closing it You can't close a door while opening it So what should we do? Remove the door Eliminate the criteria for judgment the criteria for hurt This is also impossible The next best option is to make judgment necessary for yourself not for the other person I thought that judging others based on their criteria rather than your own This is the same as removing the door Thank you But I found hope To close is to open up Not hurting yourself means not hurting others Not hurting others means not hurting yourself We can't do both but we can do one or the other There is no need to get rid of the door.