It’s not your fault they couldn’t see you— the real you, the gentle you, the fire and the ache inside you.
Some hearts are too clouded to recognize light unless it burns them. And you were never meant to set yourself on fire just to be noticed.
You showed up, open hands, a voice full of kindness. You waited in silence for something soft to return. But they looked through you— as if love had no shape.
Their blindness was never your reflection. Their silence was never your doing. Their distance wasn’t born from your lack.
When someone makes you feel small in your own story— that’s not love. When your name lives at the bottom of their list, when your heart echoes and no one comes— that is your answer.
You don’t need to be told why they couldn’t hold you. Their hands were already full of things that weren’t you.
And still— you stayed long enough to know it wasn’t about you. You asked for truth but got confusion. You waited for care and met indifference.
You were never asking for too much. You were only asking the wrong person.
So let their absence be your peace. Let their forgetfulness remind you to remember yourself. Let their unseeing be the moment you finally see your own worth without needing them to confirm it.
Some people are just not made to carry the weight of real love— but you are. You always were.
And now, you have all the closure you need— not because they gave it, but because you gave yourself permission to stop waiting for what was never coming.