The people we know are not those people, not really. They are constructs of our imagination, living in our heads and they are more or less accurate based on how open we manage to be with each other. Our memories are not recordings they are simulacrum of things that happened acted out in pantomime by the homunculus we all make of friends and loved ones. And the tragic thing is that when we go, when we finish and make memories no more they go with us, our shadow people. Every dead person takes everyone they ever met with them, every time. No one is an island. No life is just one is one life. A light doesn't go out a blackout occurs. A drop doesn't fall the flood comes. What a terrible tragedy that singular death is because it contains a multitude of deaths and the only comfort I can give is that when you go, and we all must, the make believe ghost of you lives on in the memory mummer's play inside the heads of everyone that you have ever met. Small comfort. Perhaps.