Chris and I's first date is on my birthday. He is a gentleman and a Christian. And I know it sounds like a different tune from my poetry. But he isn't like most guys who just want to get into my pants. He is a nerd like me. He is a handsome black man who actually wants to go out with me. Sure he is a straight, cis man but he accepts me being a bisexual and gender fluid woman. I will still be me. And I will still be a gender fluid, bisexual woman. None of that is changing. I will just be in a straight passing relationship. I am not picking a side so to say. I am just figuring out who if that someone is the one for me.
This is my first time being with a man in three years. But we are going to take things slow and figure out our rhythm.