"what do you want to be when you grow up" time and time again you are bombarded with this question when you get older it becomes "what are your plans for the future" "where do you see yourself in 5 years" what if my answer doesn't match yours what if the pressures exerted by this question are something i can not bear i'm expected to have an idea or at least somewhat of one i'm expected to get a job and start a career but what is expected of me is not what i want