the doctor said the worst thing you can say to a family member "this hospital is full of incompetent people" he just made life impossible for the rest of us now everything we do is wrong you have to paint a picture for the clan and that is not the picture you want to paint the love families feel for their sick ones metastasizes into worry so severe that we get splashed with its acid their love is a blast furnace and we get burnt itβs sublime to be around such love but itβs a colossal bump in the road of therapy