Finding the reasons to cry becomes an arduous task, as time never seems to be on our side. It's disheartening, but in all honesty, it's all dismissed, these thoughts and moving on.
It might be more productive to search for another opportunity or moment when tears can freely flow without judgment. He often says, "sure I'm fine, very much so," attempting to conform to societal expectations that men should suppress their emotions and not shed tears.
The act of crying, however, feels like nothing more than a mere suggestion; an optional response to the intense emotions that overwhelm us. Revealing our true feelings seems to invite a barrage of inquiries and curiosity from those around us, causing discomfort and unease.
As a result, seeking solace and comfort from others becomes nothing more than an illusory concept, an intangible notion that we struggle to find.
In our pursuit of a peaceful heart, we are often bombarded with well-meaning advice that we choose not to follow. The idea of finding inner peace becomes a distant dream, drowned out by the noise of societal expectations and the pressure to adhere to conventional masculine roles.
So for now, we must learn to cry silently, bottling up our feelings and playing the part of a stoic man today, in the hopes that tomorrow will bring a change.