How do you become something you hate? You stand, looking at your reflection every morning. “Here I am, again.” You think to yourself. Standing there, picking at the little flaws you hate. We are our own worst enemy. We see things in ourselves that we despise, when others see them as little minor details that make us “cute” and they like us as a whole, as a person, and to them that little minor thing doesn't bother them because they just see us in a way we can't see ourselves. Sometimes you just have to take the way you view yourself, flip it upside down and turn it inside out and turn it sideways, because that is the only way we will be able to see ourselves in another light, in another form and changing the same routine that makes us think we are nothing, and being another way would be better. Flaws make us human, and we always want to change, to be perfect.
The little things are what make us fall in love. They make us different because perfection doesn't exist, and if it did we'd be boring.