maybe learning to love ourselves is trusing ourselves to not invest in people time or places that don't make you feel good that don't align with who you are or what you want maybe its learning to open our eyes our hearts our souls to not hold on so tightly to our five year plans to learn to let go and to have more fun on our own to find more people with time that align with our souls to take care of ourselves our lives to be disciplined but also to be free to dare to tell ourselves we are beautiful even when we don't feel like it to give ourselves notes of confidenence to learn to stick up for ourselves and to broaden our horizons.