it occurs to me now that i cannot see a future with someone i love i can open my mind and soul to
if i tell you my deepest fears let you in let you know me
then there is no future here
the thought unsettles me both the notion of not letting someone in and the thought of letting too much of myself slip out
it is simple, really: i hide enough of myself to stay forever comfortable with you (and forever a little in discomfort in my own skin) or. i bare myself to you and you do the same to me it is freeing
until it is not
until i wonder if when this air settles and the fog clears "will you still love me?"
and so; nothing is freeing forever what once starts as freedom in my own skin has the same ending but all the while different; here there is; not enough comfort to stay but just enough discomfort to leave.
in my opinion, there are different types of people required for both. and if there is the possibility of a future with someone from the beginning then they will never be the type where you can feel free, even if it is fleeting. the nagging what-if; it always persists.
"What horrifies me most is the idea of being useless: well-educated, brilliantly promising, and fading out into an indifferent middle age." - sylvia plath