***** dishes in the sink Overflowing laundry basket Dirt on the carpet Expired food in the fridge Shoes in each corner Clogged drain Grime in the bathtub Cigarette buds on the floor Empty wine bottles Dust on the TV Cartoons on repeat Trash bags Empty takeout boxes on the counter Haven't showered Haven't cleaned in weeks She's not untidy Not unclean She's not ***** She's in a dark place Mentally She's depressed