for those whose voices were shushed for those who couldn’t push their abusers off not for those who forgot that “no” is a valid enough answer not for those who never told their children to keep their hands to themselves definitely not for those who call the people who don’t take their bull, selfish ***** that teach your children to encourage conversation to not make any moves unless they get an enthusiastic “yes” teach your children to stomp out flames teach your children to be respectful teach your children to scream for justice until their lungs stop working teach them to never surrender teach them to stand up to abominable behavior teach them to be good people! and teach them that “no” is a very very very valid answer