But how do you get out? You've already tried so many things and it leads to nothing. It makes you feel so hopeless at times. Is this really it? Is this all that there is to life? You've had enough of all the struggling and striving enough. Enough of all the stress and trying to live up other's expectations. Enough heartache enough.That is really what it all boils down to, isn't it? You just you just want to be happy and find some inner peace.