I change the game so he can be confused. I have mental strategies that make him vulnerable like compassion, empathy, loving and caring about him. I have emotional strength that makes him feel as though I am complex when my needs are simple. Friendship is basically good communication and socializing which are my thing. He doesn't even know how to have a good, deep conversation with a stranger. When I am Unapologetically Myself, he have free will because it's in my instincts to be a good friend.