Flaws are what make us human. So is creating human connections.
We need other humans to love us and value us because part of being human is not wanting to be alone. Loneliness is a silent killer in most humans. Depression cause people wanting to inflict pain on themselves because they don't want to be a burden or suicide because you can't be a burden dead. Cause and effect is what science calls the consequences of others actions. People who roam in packs take on animalistic lifestyles. As science puts it roaming in packs brings the fear of individualism. I have always been a lone wolf because it took me awhile to find my people. I enjoy leading a small crowd, reading to form my own opinions and writing to become a better version of myself. In a way my loneliness made me mysterious to other people. Hanging out with geniuses turns out I wasn't the only lone wolf who needed a pack. I don't need to be validated by big crowds in order to be happy. I have a small group of best friends who I trust with my life. Fitting in was never the issue it was hiding my weird personality quirks that scared me from the animalistic lifestyle. The thing that makes me mysterious to other people is my mental illnesses. People who claim that everyone is weird clearly never met actual weird people. Normal people may be animalistic but they are also stupid due to fitting in. I guess pleasing other people made them forget to form their own opinions. Who is the idiot who claimed that and made everyone believe it's true? Human connection is important but so is having your own mind. Being brainwashed into a modern, animalistic society that doesn't give a **** about your life is just giving society what they want and that is feeding their inferiority complexes by spilling stories about personal, intrusive events.