If you went to high school then you probably heard of Robert Frost's "The Road Not Taken" as the poem goes, "Two roads diverged in a wood and I -- I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference."
Being a rebel writer I always take "the one less traveled by", people in my life will say so. Most of my friends enjoy helping people, one of them is going to college for social work, one of them is planning to become a Registered Nurse, one of them is in college for becoming an engineer, one of them is an English Major in New York, one is a music instructor, and one of them is a missionary planning to open up a coffeehouse. I don't know what the popular people are doing with their lives, I know what my siblings are doing with their lives but that's about it. Statistically speaking, popular people have fewer friends leaving high school because they are normal. The more interesting you are the more people flock towards you like a magnet collecting nails. It's as though the whole "normal" logic flips over when heading into college.
What Path Did You Take? Did you destroy yourself on a drug addiction? Or did you get medical treatment from professionals? Do you have kids? Did you get married? What is your job? Are satisfied with your life? If you aren't satisfied with your life then find out how to make it better. I may not be a doctor but I am someone who understands life pretty **** well.